Pillow talk is special to women because of the physical closeness and the words whispered. Women like pillow talk as much as any man because sharing intimacy and being close emotionally and physically to someone feels good. It always helps to have your ego stroked by someone who loves you and wants to be with you.

Read on to master the ins and outs of pillow talk.: What she wants to hear : Obviously this varies considerably from woman to woman, but overall she just wants your time and attention in a private environment. She wants you to tell her that she’s beautiful, that she is clever, that she is funny, that she is a wonderful partner, or whatever it is that you think and feel.

Surveys on pillow talk reveal that people like hearing their own name because it increases rapport and intimacy. Recall how in everyday life when someone says your name, you instantly feel more noticed, useful or special.

What she doesn’t want to hear : Whatever you do, don’t use this opportunity to say anything negative. Sharing the moment positively will always ensure that this time is special for you both. If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all. Bedtime is for loving, relaxing and sleeping -- rejuvenating from your everyday lives. It is not a time for arguing or picking faults in your mate.