Dating Rules
Dating Rules - Don'ts
1. Never call someone more than once a
day unless they reply. Desperation and instability are huge turn offs.
2. Don't date the people who you usually
find dump you. You may be generally attracted to bastards but that will
not get you anywhere except hurt.
3. For men, never ever be late for a date,
even if you have a very good reason. Women should never be kept waiting
and should never have to seat themselves - ever.
4. Never tell lies to your date or pretend
anything about your life that isn't true. If this is your perfect match
for God's sake do not allow it to be ruined by some silly lie told early
on.
5. Never be too available. Being available
every night of the week and at the end of every whimsical phone call or
possible rendezvous means you are making yourself uninteresting and a
possible doormat. Be busy, be unavailable generally and be interesting.
6. Don't give away too much about yourself
at the start. People love enigma and mystery. Revealing to your new date
your inner most secrets on date number two will quickly ruin everything.
A small bit at a time people.
7. Never check other people out when you
are with your date. You may think you are subtle , your date will be heading
for the door. Have the courtesy of concentrating solely on your date when
you are with them.
8. Don't be rude or get drunk on a
date. Courtesy and manners will get you everywhere.
9. Don't ignore your personal safety when
dating. Have a cellular phone and keep it charged, tell your friends where
you are going and be safe. Date at first in well known public places and
never ever be pushed into anything you are not happy with.
10. Don't give out personal information
like home phone numbers and addresses on a first date. Keep them until
you are sure of your date and the future possibilities.
11. Don't have sex on a first date if
you ever want to see your new date again. If you like them and are interested
in them, sex on a first date will usually ruin everything. Its too much
too soon and is not the way of romance. Believe me I am 100% certain on
this.
12. Never date a married person. They
will not leave their husbands or wives for you (except exceptionally rarely).
Married dating is the sure fire way to misery, lies, deceit, lack of self
respect and loss of romance. If you are married, separate first. If you
are single, don't be a shoulder to cry on, you deserve far better.
